You have been married for a long time and, even though you love each other, things aren’t as smooth in your love life like before. The daily cares and struggles, you both being busy with your jobs, the kids take a lot of time – all these stress you out even more and do not feel like going all 50 shades of gray in the boudoir. Luckily, if you already acknowledged your problem and want to rekindle the flame between you, there are numerous things you can do. Read below to get inspiration:
Make time for yourselves at least once a week
Although you see each other every day and sleep in the same bed, you need some time alone just for the two of you. Send the kids away to their grandparents or hire a nanny and go out at least once a week. It can be a movie, a play, a romantic dinner or a simple walk – these simple things will determine you to get close to each other again and increase your level of intimacy.
Fulfill each other a fantasy
Every person has their fantasies when it comes to their sex lives but many couples don’t talk openly about their sexuality and their needs in bed. Each of you should make a list of their top 5 fantasies and then switch lists to get a glimpse of your spouse’s sex preferences. Agree on one fantasy for each of you and make sure to fulfill it. This will guarantee to bring you closer and more aroused than ever.
Studies show that both men and women are attracted to pornography, sometimes women even more than man. Watch some HD porn movies or scenes at least two-three times a month and you will certainly feel more aroused and determined to engage in sexual intercourse.